Part of accepting the fact that you are called/chosen is saying exactly what God wants you to say. I can admit that I myself, have chosen in certain situations to say what I FEEL as not to offend ANYONE but now my spirit is troubled. Okay, here is what should have been said:
Genesis 2:18, 21-24 NLT
Then the lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” So the lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep. While the man slept, the lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening. Then the lord God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man. “At last!” the man exclaimed. “This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh! She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken from ‘man.’” This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.
We are to love the sinner and hate the sin. Homosexuality is against God’s design. From this day forth I cannot AND will not engage in any conversation that speaks against the Word. If you have a problem with my decision take it up with my Father. It is His Word not mines!